Curated Collection
On Mistakes
Mistakes have been my most expensive teachers, and also my most valuable ones.
I started collecting quotes about mistakes after a particularly spectacular professional failure in my early career. A project I'd been leading collapsed, and I was looking for any framework that would help me process what happened. What I found in these quotes was something unexpected: almost everyone successful has a surprisingly positive relationship with mistakes. Not that they enjoy failing - nobody enjoys it - but they treat mistakes as information rather than indictment.
The original page had 31 quotes, many humorous (Steven Wright, Yogi Berra), some philosophical (Buddha, Lewis Thomas), a few cynical (Ring Lardner, Doug Larson). What united them was the recognition that mistakes are inevitable, universal, and potentially valuable. The only question is whether you learn from them.
Over the years, I've noticed that people fall into two categories regarding mistakes. The first category spends enormous energy trying to appear mistake-free, hiding errors, blaming others, reframing failures as successes. The second category makes mistakes openly, acknowledges them quickly, extracts lessons, and moves forward. The second group is more successful and definitely happier. These quotes helped me move from the first category toward the second, though it remains a daily practice.
I've curated these particular quotes because they've each shifted how I think about error, failure, and the messy process of learning through getting things wrong.
"An expert is a man who has made all the mistakes which can be made in a very narrow field."
Niels Bohr
"Experience enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again."
Franklin P. Jones
"If you can't make a mistake, you can't make anything."
Marva Collins
"Lord, deliver me from the man who never makes a mistake, and also from the man who makes the same mistake twice."
William Mayo
"We are built to make mistakes, coded for error."
Lewis Thomas
"A man of genius makes no mistakes. His errors are volitional and are the portals of discovery."
James Joyce
"People who don't take risks generally make about 2 big mistakes a year. People who do take risks generally make about 2 big mistakes a year."
Peter Drucker
"There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth - not going all the way, and not starting."
Buddha
"I don't want to make the wrong mistake."
Yogi Berra
"There is nothing wrong with making mistakes. Just don't respond with encores."
Unknown
Closing Reflection
These quotes have taught me that the relationship with mistakes separates people who grow from people who stagnate. The growing person treats mistakes as Bohr describes - necessary components of expertise. The stagnant person treats mistakes as Kissinger jokes about - something to hide until page 850 of the autobiography, if they acknowledge them at all.
What I've learned is that mistakes hurt less when you acknowledge them quickly. The mistake you hide metastasizes into something worse - a cover-up, a compounded error, a pattern of dishonesty. The mistake you acknowledge immediately stays small. You learn, you adjust, you move forward. Mayo's prayer has become my practice: make mistakes freely, but never make the same mistake twice.
Drucker's observation about risk-takers and risk-avoiders making the same number of mistakes has fundamentally changed my decision-making. If I'm paying the mistake price regardless, I might as well swing for bigger opportunities. The cautious approach doesn't actually protect you from error - it just limits your upside while providing roughly the same downside.
The hardest wisdom in this collection is Collins' insight that mistake-avoidance is the enemy of creation. Every time I've produced something worthwhile, it involved making mistakes visible to others - launching products with flaws, publishing writing that wasn't perfect, having conversations where I said the wrong thing. The alternative - waiting until I could do it mistake-free - meant never doing it at all.
Mistakes remain painful. I haven't reached some zen state where I welcome failure with open arms. But these quotes have helped me develop a more functional relationship with error - one where mistakes inform rather than devastate, where I learn rather than hide, where I recognize that being built to make mistakes means I'm built to learn.
— Amit Kothari, December 2025
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Bohr redefines expertise as complete mistake coverage rather than complete knowledge. This reframing has been liberating for me. If expertise requires making all possible mistakes in a domain, then mistakes aren't obstacles to mastery - they're the path to mastery. I've noticed this in my own learning: I became genuinely skilled in areas where I'd made every possible error at least once. Those mistakes created a map of the territory that no book could provide. The expert isn't someone who never makes mistakes; they're someone who's already made your mistake and knows what comes next.